Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the mail intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away and then getting close again.Most women are surprised to realize that even when a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is natural cycle.Women misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understan her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappionted her.
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